His apology. . The last 6 months together was spent arguing. We email some and text. I try to stay busy but most of the time it’s just around our house. He didn’t really understand. I met a lovely woman and we married 10 years ago. I wish I could tell people it gets better but it does not when you miss the love of your life. The Mind's Journal. We married right out of college. I was so devastated that I left the country to try to get over her. Sometimes if you see your ex in a dream, it means that you just want to have what you had with them. xPersephonex 1 Posted January 7, 2009. xPersephonex. No common interests tho, except animation movies. We broke up for a variety of reasons some of which mirror yours. After close to a year of walking along with him, there came a point when I no longer felt like we were in sync. I felt very comfortable with my ex. I told him we could talk over the phone. She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. I miss her greatly . Hello, my ex dumped me after 5 years of relationship. We knew where we fit in, even if it wasn’t a perfect fit. They deserve to be with someone who treats them like they're #1, not #2. You love your abusive partner so much so that you justify the abuses and would not want to leave them. 5 Reasons You Still Miss Your Abusive Ex! It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. All Topics Topic Family & People Relationships » Still miss my ex after 5 years. I go … We used to run a business together and work ended up ruining our relationship. I cant seem to get him out of my mind. (1) You suffer from Stockholm Syndrome: Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition when the victim is made to develop a crazy empathy for the abuser. I was single for 5 years after my divorce (was married for 15 years). “Does My Ex Even Miss Me at All?” Today, I’m going to answer that for you.. . His email said that he’d had some things on his mind. 2. Source(s): I still have an occasional dream about my ex wife 30 years later, though my current spouse of 25 years probably wouldn't approve. Are you repelling your ex? Photo: Luke Pennystan via Unsplash. Should I contact her? After all, the two of you shared so many memories together, right? Posts. Participant Last» aaron80 Posts: 16, Reputation: 5. My only relationship so far, and I still love her so much, though I haven't seen her since the breakup. long-distance relationship; no contact; ex; dating; By xPersephonex, January 7, 2009 in Healing After Break Up or Divorce. I still miss my ex after two years? If you're still heartbroken over your ex, then you shouldn't be dating someone new. Partner. why do i still miss my ex girlfriend 5 years ago? No matter how much abuse you are, you would not leave because you are emotionally attached … Love, Heartbreak. Even though time has gone by, it's completely normal to miss someone that you were with romantically. Five years later and I (27m) still miss my ex (27f) Close. She never responded. We shared inside jokes. I keep asking myself to get up and do something but I don’t. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Hearing only what you want to hear. I dreamt of her frequently (and still do). Still miss my ex after a year of no contact Still miss my ex after a year of no contact. November 16, 2017 at 7:52 am #178329. I worked for a while after graduating, then went to graduate school, moved across the country, and established my career. if I ever get another chance with her I will treat her as a queen . I see him now and then. This is often true when your Ex has moved on before you have. I think I am depressed but don’t want drugs. Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total) Author. I'm dating a new girl now, and she's great to/for me. this is something normal?? I dont know why, I thought I had moved on and stopped thinking about my ex. but I met her when I was 20 and she was 17 . 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